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Instructions for how this slave should speak with my Master

2011-08-31T18:28:00.000-07:00

slave Communication

"Master" is the Master's role, title, and name. A slave will always refer to him only as "Master”, "The Master" , “my Master”, “Sir”, or “my Owner” depending on how it is being used in a sentence and to whom the slave is speaking.  
. A slave’s reference to himself is always "Your slave" or “Your property” or “he” as a secondary reference when speaking to his Master. When speaking with others, a slave refers to himself as "this slave" and uses "he" as a secondary reference. A slave will never use the words "me", "my" or "I". The only exceptions are that a slave can say "my Master", "my slave brother", or "my slavery" 
C. A slave says "Sir, Yes Sir, Thank You Sir!" every time the slave:
i. Is given any order
ii. Is told any piece of information, even if it doesn't affect him
iii. Has his speech or behaviour corrected or explained
The slave says "Sir, No Sir, Thank You Sir!" when his response is negative.
The slave may occasionally strengthen the response by responding, "Sir, Yes Sir, Thank You Master Sir!” Another alternative when answering a question for information only is "Yes Master, Thank You Sir!" These variations are intended to only be used appropriately and cannot become a substitute for the normal response of "Sir, Yes Sir, Thank Your Sir!" 
D. The slave can answer any yes or no question asked of him by stating “yes/no Sir” and will respond to assuming a position with only “yes, Sir” (example: the command - kneel - will be answered –“yes Sir”) 
E. A slave never speaks unless spoken to. When the slave feels a need for the Master's attention, the slave comes into the Master's consciousness by:

1. PRESENTING himself
2. Immediately asking only one time "Master Sir?"
The slave expresses his request for the Master's attention regardless of what the Master is doing at the time. The request is presented in such a way as to NOT disturb what the Master is doing at the time, but sufficient to make the Master aware of the request.
3. Awaits the Master's acknowledgment
4. If asking a "yes" or "no" question says "Sir, do You wish Your slave to..., Sir" (whatever yes/no question the slave has), beginning with "Sir" and ending with "Sir".
5. If asking to go to the bathroom, asks "Sir, do You wish Your slave to go to the bathroom, Sir?"
6. The slave responds "Sir, Yes Sir, Thank You Sir!" no matter what the Master's response to any question.
7. If the question implies an action, the slave, after the normal "Sir, Yes Sir, Thank You Sir!" he will do the action and present to his Master for further instruction unless he is told to continue.
8. If the question doesn't imply the slave's action, the slave must additionally ask "Sir, do You wish Your slave to continue Sir?" Again, the slave will respond "Sir, Yes Sir, Thank You Sir!" no matter what answer is given.
9. If the slave feels the need to ask a question that is longer than a yes/no question, the slave asks:
(1) "Sir, do You wish Your slave to ask a question Sir?"
(2) Awaits the Master's response.
(3) Says "Sir, Yes Sir, Thank You Sir!"
(4) asks his question if the Master's response was affirmative
10. If the slave feels the need to make a comment, he asks:
(1) "Sir, do You wish Your slave to make a comment Sir?"
(2) awaits the Master's response
(3) responds "Sir, Yes Sir, Thank You Sir!"
(4) makes the comment, if question answered in affirmative.

F. When the slave is already engaged in conversation with the Master, the slave doesn't have to enter the Master's consciousness by saying "Master Sir?" 
G. When the Master has asked his slave a question, the slave doesn't need to ask the Master's intention regarding making a comment, 
H. A slave refers to other slaves as "slave", as "slave (first name), "slave brother", or other identifiers or name defined by her Master. 
I. "Sir, beg Your pardon Sir" is the only way a slave expresses his accidental activities. A slave never says "sorry", or "excuse me." It would be appropriate for a slave to use "Beg Your Pardon Sir" in a crowd when he has bumped into another. 
J. "Sir, beg Your pardon Sir" is also the appropriate response when a slave didn't hear or clearly understand an order. A slave says "Sir, Yes Sir, Thank You Sir!" only when he fully understands the explanation or order and when he feels the appreciation for having it given to him 
K. A slave enters into a conversation in the Master's presence by asking

"Master Sir?" "Sir, do You wish Your slave to make a comment Sir?" This allows the slave into the conversation. The Master might also directly invite the slave into the conversation with a sign, a word, a look, or a nod which indicates the Master's order to speak. The slave, as always, responds "Sir, Yes Sir, Thank You Sir!"

L. When speaking with the Master, every sentence is begun and ended with the word "Sir", and EVERY pause filled with "Sir" whether for a breath, a new thought, or any other purpose. When there is more than one thought to express, the slave can use a single "Sir" between sentences so that two "Sir's" aren't expressed together. Thoughts are expressed clearly, succinctly, and without run-on. Each thought is ended, rather than held with "you know", "uh" or any other holder of speech. No holder of speech is ever used except for "Sir."

M. slaves are free to speak between themselves, even in the presence of their Master, so long as it is not distracting, does not compete with what the Master wants to express, can be immediately and easily interrupted by the Master interjecting and doesn't interfere with the position the slave is currently holding.

N. A slave can always ask for clarification and understanding. He can ask if the Master is ready to receive his comments, but a slave does not ever argue!

O. In writing, any reference to a slave is always in the small case, even at the beginning of a sentence. References to persons of respect are always capitalized. The use of "I", "me", and "my" applies to writing, the same as in speech.

P. Every question a slave asks regarding the Master's intention becomes an order once the Master answers and should be followed with “Sir, Yes Sir, thank You Sir.”

Q. A slave PRESENTS himself to say with his presence that he has completed all orders, has no need for the Master's attention, and is ready for the next order. When all current orders are complete, the slave comes within the Master's line of sight, and presents himself. At this point, a slave may be sent to “his place” to remain until needed.   The slave will quietly remain in his place until given an order. If the slave wishes to speak while in “his place” he must say “Master” clearly to be heard and await his reply.

R.  When a slave feels the need for food or drink, the slave always asks his Master his need first, then adds, "and Your slave?" A sample behaviour would include:
1.      PRESENTING appropriately, either full or standing
2.      Asking "Master Sir?"
3.      Awaiting acknowledgment
4.      Asking "Sir, do You wish Your slave to get You some wine Sir?"
5.      Responding "Sir, Yes Sir, Thank You Sir!"
6.      Then adding "and Your slave Sir?"
7.      Again responding "Sir, Yes Sir, Thank You Sir!"

*amended from an original by CUFFSMASTER

From sub to boy to slave

2011-08-16T14:36:00.000-07:00

Someone asked me about being a slave and why I chose this life. It made me ponder, did I start out planning to be a slave? Did my younger self ever imagine being a slave?
The answer to both is a surprising no, in my younger years the idea of slavery was not even on the radar.
I started out as a bottom, I tried topping a few times but was not a very good fucker, and I loved being the bottom. Over time I experimented with light bondage and subbing and enjoyed it, but the bondage was always short term and ended with orgasm.
When I hit 30 I found the time and opportunity to experiment on the SM scene in London and met a few tops and one or two Masters.
One of these either spotted my inherent slave nature (or was mind fucking me about it) I spent the night with Him, collared and leashed with Him holding the lead all night in bed. He was rough and assertive and very horny. Sadly His comments about me being a slave made me freak out and rebel, so we parted company quite abruptly.
I was still a sub, a player.
Much later I met the man who is now my Master.
He introduced me to bondage and sexual obedience, He was patient and slowly and inexorably extended my experiences and yearnings.
I became His boy, my cock became His cock, my sexual choices became His sexual choices.
Over a period of months He made me more of what he wanted, an independent and successful career man, who was also a dependent and subservient sexual partner.
I found that I did not want any sexual encounter unless I was with Him (previously I was a regular at clubs and saunas)
After a year or so it was me who said I wanted to be His slave, that being His number one boy just did not seem to fit anymore.
Master discussed this and said that this was a serious commitment, not just some wank game. If He took me as His slave it would be based on my ongoing service to Him and that I would sign a contract in the presence of witnesses relinquishing my rights to Him.
It took another few months before Master was ready to offer me my contract of slavery.
Finally we met with friends and I signed myself over to Him. It felt so right, not just sexually but emotionally and even intellectually.
I can not imagine not being His slave and I look back on my former self with a wry smile, thinking about what might have been if I had taken this path sooner, but grateful that my delay meant that I met my Owner

One month of chastity

2011-08-12T15:19:00.000-07:00

Master has locked his cock this week and has decided that it will not be released until we are in Berlin for Folsom Europe.
I am already suffering from massive horniness and my sub side is coming on more and more strong and it's only been a week so far!
It will be another 4 weeks before release and even then, there is no guarantee

I will update the blog as the days pass

elements of slave training

2011-07-29T14:09:00.000-07:00

slave training:

Physically, the slave must be exposed to "edge" physical discipline, pressures that exceed his ability to handle it. To be able to "handle" physical S/M, all the pressure a slave is exposed to, implies that the man is maintaining control. The trainee must be forced to experience pressure beyond what he can handle, beyond what he can control, so that the control is transferred to another, his SlaveMaster. It forces the slave's mental processes to occur below the conscious level, at the subconscious level where what a man must experience, abandon, acknowledge, or let go of, is known.

The training process is not about a slave learning to control more pressure. It's about learning not to control at all!

It's about learning to let someone else, his SlaveMaster, do all the controlling. It is very different from the "slow start, transition, mind space/other side" experience of the pure S/M players.

(taken from the web some time ago- author unknown)

First blog

2011-07-21T20:33:00.000-07:00

My request to my Master:

Master, I am laid in bed, collared and hard. I have tried to drop off to sleep but my mind is racing so I thought it best to write down my thoughts.

I am Your property and Yours to use, abuse and train.

I have been thinking about Your cock, I would like to take my slavery to You to the next level and be trained to further in being a slave for Your pleasure, ignoring my own sexual wants. You already control access to Your cock, but I am allowed to request touching, wanking and cumming. I crave orgasm, I want to cum, but I think I need to be trained to learn to ignore that desire and focus instead on being horny and in service to You. Orgasms should be for You to decide, not for me to request Sir.

The knowledge that orgasms are denied unless and until You independently decide to provide one would be an incredible level of servitude Sir. A further way of being Yours and Yours alone.

As I type this I am conscious that my levels of frustration and horniness will be grow but this will be good learning for me. I am Your slave, Your cock may be hard and Your slave may be horny, but it is the slave's job to make You horny, not to cum itself.

I already get great pleasure from providing You with pleasure and I want and need to take that to the next stage Sir.

Your needs and wants are the key to my sexual being, if having a chaste and horny slave in Your ownership would please You, I want to be that slave for You Master